Wednesday, January 28, 2009

i got scammed!

after reading all the horror stories of brides getting duped by shady vendors, i swore i would never fall prey to it…but stupid me!

i wanted to get a photobooth for the reception, but most booths are so expensive! a couple months back i stumbled onto this vendor who does photobooths but for half the price (i should have realized then something was fishy….) basically because it's not like a real photobooth, but one that they set-up and break down (yes it looks a little ghetto but it supposedly still takes perfectly fine photostrips!)

anyhow i talked to the guy a few times, who didn't seem the most professional, but i kept easing my worries with the money i thought i would be saving….but when he didn’t send a contract after multiple requests, yet still took the $ off my credit card for the deposit, i got worried. he never replied to any of my emails [shady] but every time i called we would talk and he would promise to get it to me. so i finally emailed him asking him to cancel everything and refund my deposit. no response…

finally, i decided to do a google search of him and his company (which i should have done to begin with!) lo and behold, there is complaint after complaint about his poor service, never responding to people or sending them their photo's, ripping people off (including the people he employees to run the booths at the events!) and apparently he is ranked #6 worst businessman in NC, has multiple complaints with the BBB (Better Business Bureau) and is pending investigation. lovely.

well i jumped on the phone w/ good 'ol american express (it pays to have debt) to file a dispute. i explain to the super-nice lady what's going on, she takes some information and assures me that amex stands firmly behind their cardholders and their disputes/claims. unfortunately, i'll take me a good few months before i know whether i'll get the $ back. eeeep!

moral of the story- plan a simple wedding.

the end.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

T minus 4 months!

happy new year! 2008 was a blur eh? sometimes it's hard to believe that we got engaged all the way back in 2007. and before you knew it, it's already 2009 and the wedding is just around the corner...

i won't lie- these days i've been wanting to throw myself into oncoming traffic with the insanity of everything....but i have resisted mostly at the thought of leaving happy motherless

so a few quick updates! we are FINALLY in our new apt (well as of Jan 1) slowly we are buying new furniture and getting settled. there are still boxes everywhere, clothes strewn about, piles of messes here and there- it is driving me crazy every time i see it! my mattress is finally arriving this weekend and i will now get to sleep in a bed! we have a few short- term house guests with us (LiNK interns...haha) so until they move out, john feels we cannot fully unpack and get "settled." in the meantime, john lives downstairs with his friends (gene, aaron and sam), and i get the whole apt to myself (plus the intern, for now). happy likes the new place but he definitely doesn't like being home alone all day while we're at work...he let's us know that with the secret piece of poo he like's to put somewhere different every day. *sigh* maybe he really is stupid?

all in all- how come no one told us moving (starting from scratch) was SO MUCH WORK?? i ain't gonna lie- it's been hard to graduate from ikea..

so onto wedding things. you will be so proud to know that i have finally accomplished all of the major "to-do's" as of today (more or less....haha). on top of that, my mom now calls me at least once a day to talk about "wedding stuffs" and to stress me out. jowah jowah.


finally gots me a photographer!! her work is so beautiful and i'm super excited because she will be shooting the majority of the wedding in film rather than just digital!

karen wise [site] [blog]


wedding invitations: samples coming soon- i will post them as soon as i get them....but in the meantime i just thought i'd tell you that truly smitten is truly awesome! i'll share pictures from her wedding next time (her color scheme was black + yellow)....seriously beautiful wedding! cannot wait to see our invitations....

cake:
liking these-




shoes:
check out these badboys....i decided to return the other ones and go with these!
flowers: met a florist over the holidays and sat down with her for 15 minutes- she was able to work within my budget [cheap] so i booked her right away and told her i'd just email her pictures....hope it turns out ok (oops oops oops). how pretty are ranunculus, peonies and hydrangeas! i'm hoping to use these for the bouquets and centerpieces. keep it simple... like my life.





guys: go for gray (light or dark?) or just stick to the simple black?




that's all for now! it's crunchtime now so i'll likely update more frequently for my 1 reader (jane :P) haha

homework:
1) yellow dresses for bm's- where are you all hiding??
2) any tips on how to cut down the guestlist? (mama song decided to invite 100 people!)